Warrior Cats: The Four Clans

Karma · Loner

RE: Moonstar's Journal! [Update on 3/8/09 Friend problems...]

Moonstar · RiverClan Leader

Yeah, hahahaha, I know, but I already dealth with this problem. In sixth grade I already told her that we "needed to take a break" because I didn't want to be her friend. I don't want to have to say that again because it was hard enough the first time, but seriously I don't want to hang out with her...

Karma · Loner

K, heres wat u do... (K, u dont rlly have to do this but I had to start out with that line... :)

Personally I dont think you should tell her the break thing, dude I've been through that b4 and that friend took it completely wrong, she thought I hated her and kept yelling at me and her mom told my mom and this friend tried to ruin my rep. (Although I don't have much of one :) So if you wanna take my advice, dont tell her you wanna take a break.

You may want to.....
~Just cassually hang out with her less, talk to her when you are talked to but engage less in the conversation than you usually would, and don't go out of your way to talk to her.
~What exactly is it about her that is annoying you? Tell her you have a problem with that, but don't handle it like one of my past friends did, tell her nicely and if she doesn't comply thats fine. But don't ask her to change who she is like one of my past friends did.
~Communicate lightly but regularly. Remind her whats annoying you maybe once a week in different ways and VERY VERY lightly. like hide it within a sentence or something.
~ If she does something uncalled for only call her out when she makes that mistake, not contantly, just whn she annoys you. got it? :)

I hope this helps.... sorry if it doesnt!!!

Moonstar · RiverClan Leader

I already told her the break thing and she took it fine but not seriously. I wasn't planning on telling her again though.
I already almost never engage in convo when she's around and I hang out with her the least amount I possibly can. But I still wanna hang out with you so I make sacrifices.
A lot of different things are annoying me and I'd rather not tell her about any of them. She's done that to me before and it's retarded and I don't have to do the same thing to her even if it is lightly.
So yeah but I appreciate the thought.

Karma · Loner

aw! I'm sorry becka! That makes me feel bad tht I hang out with her as often as I do!

Moonstar · RiverClan Leader

No don't feel bad, I can tough it out. It's fine, I'm not gonna drag you away from someone you really like for my own personal selfish problems. That wouldn't be right.

Moonstar · RiverClan Leader

Florestadream wrote:

I thought this over, Mooners, and here's what I have to say.

There are people who just want to ruin your life. So what? They're just a crack in one big bump in the road; your life. These cracks will come in a variation of sizes. From small cracks you can step over, or large rifts that takes time to cross. Either way, you'll pass over it with difficulty, even if it's just a little step. Ignore the nagging feeling that she hates you, or that you dislike her, because, maybe you're a crack in her road (for who knows why), and she's trying to cope with you; but in the wrong way. Falling, Regret, Forgiveness, Compassion, Happiness. These are steps that help you get across the crack.

So just take that small little step over this little crack that this girl has created, and Fall, though come back quickly, and show Forgiveness and Compassion for their wrong-doing, and find happiness. Because no one truly deserves to be hated.

My other thought (or, my initial thought in plain words. xD) :: Maybe she's just jealous of you or something. But just cope with it, and as Tabbers said, hang out with your other friends if they give you the chance. Obviously they're more comforting to you, and talk to them about it, and maybe think it through. Why would she hate you? Does she have any motive? Someone pushing her? Jealousy? Little things like this can make a big difference. So maybe one of those are a reason.

I hope I helped even a little. :3

*stares at message*

OHMYGOSHIJUSTNOTICEDTHISMESSAGE
IAMSOSORRY
Anyways, thank you so freakin much! I like how you described that. ^^
I don't THINK she has any reason to be jealous of me, but who knows.
She was superrrr rude to me the other day.
We both kind of dislike each other but I want her to leave completely from our group.
Be gone!
Tehe. ~x3

Florestadream · RiverClan Warrior

Lol! I am glad to be of some help, Mooners! Now I must learn to help myself. xD

Moonstar · RiverClan Leader

Hahaha, yes, you must. >=3

Moonstar · RiverClan Leader

March 22nd, 2009 5:21 PM
So guess what guys?
Mooneh's feelin' a little brave... >=3
First of all, this Tuesday, March 24th, is kinda horrible because... IT'S EXACTLY ONE YEAR FROM WHEN I STARTED LIKING LUKE! So that's pretty bad, a whole year has gone by and if we both like each other neither of us have admitted it. Which brings me doubt...
But anyways, I'm feeling better. I was given a pep talk today and nooowwww... I think I'm gonna ask out Luke *GASPS!* I know, it took me a whole year to even consider asking him out. I'm so amazingly lame!
Anyways, I'mhoping sometime this week, after math (preferably Tuesday cus that'd be cooler, but I'm gonna do it whenever I feel like I'll be able to do it without freaking out. Ya know, ceize the moment! >3) I'm going to approach Luke and ask him if he wants to hang out sometime.
Is it bad to ask the guy out? Should I just tell him I like him and see if he asks me out? If you've asked a guy out, any tips?
Answer those please. Hahaha. :)
I've already planned what I'm going to say, so we'll just see how this goes.
Wish me luck!
<3,
The Courageous Mooners