*Sigh* Attraction... Well i guess its the first thing that draws us to our potentional mate then again, usually people that are good looking or hot are so concieted or just dont even give anyone the time of day. It seems to me that Chris likes you a good deal. I cant say whether or not you should call the whole thing off because you arent attracted to him physically anymore >.> Does his personality still make you feel warm? Safe? If it doesnt then perhaps he just has a bad personality or you are just not looking hard enough or giving him a fair chance. I dont know... dont mind me i get a little ticked off when people go in to the whole, he is handsome/nice looking or she is pretty/nice looking and then that was all that brought you in to the relationship *Sigh* dont listen to me, i have no experience in this area anyway XD
I think I know what Ebbsies is saying and I must say I agree...I mean not to be rude Moony, but can you just, you know, blow him off because he isn't as physically attractive as before? I mean I think I like a guy right now and, let us say, he is not very...hot. xD;; But yeah...so yeah.
Thanks for the help, guys. Fortuantely, I'm over the haircut now ^^ Though I must admit, in my junior high dating years it is very important to be physically attracted to your boyfriend when you're this young... it just is... maybe it's just me. I think if you're not, you're not likely to be faithful to him and will be tempted ALOT.
June 6th, 2009 6:07 PM I texted him and was like "So are we just gonna try to be best friends again?" he replied "I hope so". Then I asked how if I was supposed to act the same and stuff cus I didn't know how to go about it, and he replied "Lol its no big deal do what you like" He's really sweet. Now i feel like sharing it. All day I sensed it, I told alot of people that he was probably going to break up with me. they were like "SILLY MOONIEEE, HE IS NOOOOT." And after school, he hugged me and said something like, "Hey Moonie [real name], I kind of liked us better as friends. Like us just hanging out in LA and stuff." I agreed but I was hurt anyways, and then he hugged me again and said, very gently, "See you later." Very sweet breakup. He's awesome. On the bus I was hiding my tears, my friend Melissa was trying to help me and she saw me crying about it and was like "OMG MOOONYYY!" really sadly. And then I got home and some of my best friends made me this spa in my room and kept my mind off of it. I love them. haha. That's it. Still kinda sad bout it. But i hope we can go back to being best friendsss <33
~~ Oh, won't you walk through And bust in the door And take me away Oh, no more mistakes Cause in your eyes I'd like to stay.. ~~
ChrisKeepMeHere~Moonerss
-- Edited by Moonstar on Sunday 7th of June 2009 05:49:08 AM
Aww moonie!!! :'( that's so sad. I know you really liked him After getting over luke but i think because if ya'll broke up then that means ya'll are better off as friends. hope you feel better And hope that helped,
I did really like him, but I'm better now. I don't like him as much as I liked Luke, so I really feel that I can get over him quickly if I put my mind to it. Even though he broke up with me, he saved my life. Because he made me get over Luke. And that was all I could ever ask for <3
-- Edited by Moonstar on Monday 8th of June 2009 01:06:52 AM
I'm glad that you're so optomistic about this all Moonie! :D *hugs* I wish all to go well for you from now on. :DDDDD And I'm glad you two are still friends! That's a really great thing and probably the only thing you could ask for! I'm also glad that he told you nicely! Chris sounds like a true friend! :D
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okay, then. unfortunately loving an idiot who doesn't love me back. but i'm not falling. i just kind of... am. .
June 11th, 2009 3:43 PM I can't handle this. Chris asked out another girl. I don't know who, I've been trying to get friends to go undercover to find out, but he won't tell them. All I know is that while walking to my locker at the end of school, he was behind me talking to one of his friends. I'm sure he was talking about a girl, and I heard him saying stuff like "Yeah, she said 'Maybe', which isn't a yes or a no so that's good!" Yes, I still like him at least a little, which is why I'm so upset by this. It's not nearly as much as I ever liked Luke, thank goodness. Because of this, I feel like I have control over this situation. Luke taught me that I'm a lot stronger than I ever thought I was. And since that was basically the worst case scenario, I feel like I can conquer anything now. So I'm definitely gonna get through this. But it's so hard! Ugh I'm SOO mad about it! He moved on so friggin quickly. And it hurts SOOOO FRIGGEN MUCH! UGHHH! Plus, our friendship is super awkward now. I miss being his best friend and just letting loose. This sucks.
~~ Words screaming in my head Why did you leave? And I can't stop dreaming Watching you and her When it should have been It should have been me ~~
Please,Please... Moooon;__;
-- Edited by Moonstar on Thursday 11th of June 2009 10:52:08 PM