I've already gotten on to my grandma and cousin for defending/posting a suicide joke, respectively. And that was over the internet. If it happens in real life, someone is getting a Holy Fist of Antioch for an early Christmas present. :/
12/14/10 So, in other news, I'm moving into a new house within the next month.
Which sounds swell and all -- after all, it's only a couple of blocks down from where I live now. That is until you consider the fact that I just found out a week ago. And it wasn't from my dad. Who made the decision. And he still hasn't mentioned it. And as far as he knows I don't know. Oh and it's the middle of December. And it's wet and cold. And we're moving in with his girlfriend and her two daughters. Who I don't know at all, aside from one of the daughters. Did I mention the fact that my parents' divorce isn't even final yet? And that this is being sprung on me and my siblings? And that the two aforementioned daughters were already aware of this while my four siblings who still live with my dad and I had absolutely no warning at all?
I and all my siblings have gone through the exact same thing and more. Believe me, you'll be fine. unless your other parent kidnaps you like my "real dad" did to me.
though i can't completely empathize with you, and i'd be more than lying if i said i could, i will say this: best wishes. this is probably an extremely hard time for you. just know we're all here.(:
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07.08.13
okay, then. unfortunately loving an idiot who doesn't love me back. but i'm not falling. i just kind of... am. .
Ah... Well now this is awkward... I was going to go on a short tirade about how someone with so few siblings wouldn't understand, but I guess I cant' do that not that the opposite is true. XP
But yeah, I'm sure we'll all get used to it eventually; however, my irritation with the whole thing stems from the fact that he hasn't said anything to us about it, and I'm going to be really angry if he springs it on us after Christmas without giving us any sort of opinion or time to get used to the idea. Which is likely, because we're apparently moving next month. :/
Hi. Sorry I havn't been active and wow...that sounds like a hazard. But hey...I know this might be nosing in stuff I souldn't be but... My mom has a boyfriend and so far I get along great with him. No we don't have much in common, but he's nice to be around. Maybe...well what if you tried to spend time with him or the daughters? I know that's a common thing to say but maybe trying to know them and seeing who they are might work...
And that sucks. Some of my sister's friends at school made jokes about suicide too and one of them blurted ot what I saw you write... and the girls laughed it off lik some big joke. And they wondered why I was angry and almost punched them... They had family members who commited suicide bu apparently that doesn't matter much to them...
It's kind of hard to spend time with them when your dad is deliberately trying to hide the fact that he's going out with her, as well as when the two daughters in question never actually come over along with their mom. :3 Believe me, I'm trying, but they're making it incredibly hard for any of this to actually work. :|
But yeah. I honestly don't understand people when they do stuff like that. Oh well; I guess that's why I was made to avoid people like that.